Open Question: how can i tell my mom to stop judging me?
I am really close with my mom, and i really value her opinions. However, lately all she has to say are bad things about me. She will go on for maybe 20 mins telling me how I really need to lose weight. (im not fat im a 15 year old girl, 5'5, 130). She says that i really need to lose weight and that im not quite fat yet, but im getting there. I try to tell her that i like myself and i think im pretty slim. but she just rolls her eyes and says "no, ur not skinny, at all. ur not slim either. ur just normal" My mom has really high standards about everything, and i feel like i can't ever please her. I try telling her that i wish she wouldnt get down on me so much, because i like myself the way i am, and it hurts me that not even my own mother can accept me. She just says that she sees me screwing up and that she wants me to be better. (im not screwing up, i get good grades, im not fat, and im a nice person). I want more then anything for her to just tell me im doing ok, but she wont, and it really hurts me.
Does anyone have any advice what i can say to her to please let her know that i really just want her to love me, and stop judging me?
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